Another year, another dance recital in the books. This year marks 12 years of dance for our (not so tiny) dancer. That adds up to around 20 recitals and too many competitions to count. We have purchased somewhere around 150 costumes, and countless pairs of tap shoes, jazz shoes, pointe shoes, and hip-hop shoes. We’ve bought earrings …
Category Archives: Dance Mom Life
Fearless
This past week, as I took my morning walk on my normal path through our neighborhood, something big dawned on me. I used to be fearless. I was walking down one of the many streets in our neighborhood that line the woods and marsh. I always catch myself looking out into the trees and wondering about …
A Well-Rounded Dancer
A well-rounded dancer by definition (according to AI and other sources) states that said dancer has a well balanced education in technique and exposure to various different styles. They have a diverse background of experience and comprehensive training in many different areas. While I don’t disagree, I have my own definition of what a well-rounded dancer …
To the moms behind the scenes…
Today, my tiny dancer daughter had a moment in the spotlight. She won an amazing honor at her summer dance intensive. I clapped. I took pictures. I was so incredibly proud. Her first comment upon seeing me was, “Are you crying?!” No! (Yes…I cried.) This mom life can be tough at times, and dance mom life? Don’t even get me …
Hard Work
Dear Hard Work,
You don’t scare me.
Goodbyes are for those who don’t believe
In an ideal world we would never have to say goodbye.
Just Like That
Last weekend before dance recital she did her own lipstick. It doesn’t seem like such a big deal. She does her own makeup all the time. But getting ready for her recital, she decided that she would practice over the summer so she could start doing her own dance makeup next year. Just like that. My tiny …
Lessons From the Stage
Things to tell my dancer daughter… There are many things I could tell you about life, but the dance stage will teach you all of it. Find yourself a tribe. Welcome in all who support positivity, dedication, and teamwork. Make others a priority and hard work your best friend. Cheer for your friends loud enough to drown out …
Closure
It hit me out of the cold December blue. Epiphany.
It’s time to let go.
The Thing About Distance
I already know what you’re thinking. (Or, at least, the self conscious version of my alter ego thinks I know…) You’re thinking, “Why is this lady posting six-month-old dance videos? Doesn’t she realize that she’s in a new state with a daughter who is totally happy at a new studio?” I know, I know. I know!! You’re …